REVELATION OF THE PURPOSE OF RELATIONSHIP, THE VISION OF YOUR PARTNER, AND CONSEQUENT COMPATIBILITY QUOTIENT ARE DEMANDS FOR A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS
Hear this: When the purpose of a thing is not discovered, abuse is inevitable. When the purpose of any relationship is not known, frustration and total failure become the order of the day.
Purpose is the intent of a thing. It is the original reason why a thing is created. Without purpose, development and growth are not guaranteed. God is a God of purpose. He established every kind of relationship for a reason. Marriage is at His heart. That was why He established marriage before ministry and business. Until you discover and connect to the purpose of any relationship, you remain a struggler in it.
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One of the major reasons why people, even believers, fail in marriage is because they lack adequate knowledge of what marriage is all about. They lack adequate insight on the subject of marriage. How can you enjoy what you do not know about?
A lot of people jump into relationships without thinking and adequate light. Little wonder why they fall out of relationship without mercy. When you do not know what a relationship is about, or what it holds for you, you end up at the mercy of your ignorance and its consequences. If you jump into any affairs in life, you are bound to fall but when you grow in it, you remain ever growing from generations to generations (Proverbs 4:18).
The greatest mistake people make before choosing their partners is lack of the discovery of what marriage is all about. How many successful marriages have you studied? How many marriage and relationship seminars have you attended? How many successful marriages have you taken time to observe and discover what made them thick? What do you know about marriages?
Hear this: One single mistake in your marital life is able to wreck your whole life. Marriage should be approached as a serious business and not as gambling. Stop gambling relationships. Be taught and be blessed! Training precedes triumph in life. Until you are trained, you cannot triumph. Marriage is not an exemption.
Apart from knowing the purpose of establishing relationships by God, you need to know the vision of your partner to be established in any relationship. What are his/her objectives for wanting to have you closer? Do you share the same? What is his/her main purpose on earth? Has he/she discovered his/her purpose for existence? If yes, what is the purpose all about? Do you share the same vision? Even if your visions are not the same, does his/her vision align with your own vision? Can you people compliment each other? These are some of the questions you must ask yourself before you finally accept his/her friendship or marriage proposal.
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Hear this: If his vision is not compatible with yours, you can never be submissive (if you are a lady). In the same vein, if your partner’s vision does not align with yours, you might not love her (for the men). This is one of the major reasons why many are in one apartment but no peace. They would rather pray for the termination of the relationship than pray for its growth and sustainability. What a shame!
“If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do? Psalm 11:3
Imagine some body who wants to travel to the Northern part of your country. As he/she awaits a vehicle to board for the journey, a car parks by the side and waves his/her hands to the person waiting for a cab. He/she opens the door of the vehicle, in celebration of a seemingly free vehicle, and gladly enters the vehicle. Only to discover, on arrival, that he/she is in the Eastern part of the country and not the Northern part he/she wanted to go. This is exactly what happens to most people.
In the quest to get connected to a partner and get married, they end up with the wrong person, heading the wrong direction. Maybe the so-called partners that they ended up with just came back from “Yankee” (Overseas), proposed to them for marriage. And they “jump in”, thinking that they have “arrived”. Only to discover later that the young man is a drug addict, a gambler, and a crook. “Where do I go from here?” becomes an unending question at their seemingly honeymoon. The veil has been unveiled, the suits have gone off and reality becomes tangible. May this never happen to you in Jesus name!
Before you accept to befriend or marry anybody, checkout the “Visions compatibility: Is he/she going the same direction with me? Can he/she leverage or add value to my life? If yes, in what areas? What is the guarantee that he/she will fulfill his/her promises? And other related questions.
Don’t just jump onto relationships because your suitor is handsome/ beautiful, rich, classy or has a car. It is dangerous.
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