This blog post, “How To Disorganize The Wheels Of Marriage Problems” is revealing, inspiring, and informational!
May I ask you these questions?…
Is your marriage wrecking because of marriage problems?
Has the love you once professed to each other fade?
Has the honey in the honey-moon dripped away because of marriage problems?
Do not kill yourself; there is a solution to marriage problems.
This blog post offers you some of them.
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Logically speaking, it is common knowledge that in a motor accident, the Press approaches the driver first for an interview. If there is anybody to be held responsible in an accident, it is the driver.
Likewise, in a marital problem, the first person to ask about what destroyed the marriage is the man.
It takes a good manager to manage a business efficiently and effectively. That does not mean that the woman is not as guilty as the man.
God blamed both Adam and Eve when they committed the atrocity in the Garden of Eden. So, both the man and the woman should be held responsible; it takes two to tango.
Therefore, if your marriage is facing marriage problems, take the following steps below to restore it from marriage problems
How To Disorganize The Wheels Of Marriage Problems Strategy #1
Express Love To Your Wife
How many times have you appreciated what your wife’s’ or husbands wear? You have been in a relationship for the past five years, have you ever admired openly what your partner is doing to the progress of the relationship?
A little, “Honey, I love you, you look cool”, is more than enough to restore marital bliss to families and marriages.
Try this on your friend, fiancé/fiancée, husband, or wife, and tell me of the result!
How To Disorganize The Wheels Of Marriage Problems Strategy #2
Say Sorry When You Hurt Your Partner
“I’m sorry, it will never happen again”, seems so simple but it has a lot to do with the longevity of a relationship.
When you offend your partner in any way, do not allow him/her to sleep over it, say sorry immediately.
This will go a long way to solving the problem. Settle every problem before twenty-four (24) hours.
How To Disorganize The Wheels Of Marriage Problems Strategy #3
Give Gifts To Each Other
Once in a while, get good gifts for your partner. This helps to make relationships healthy, vibrant, and lasting. Even an $1 (One Dollar) gift can add great value to relationships.
Giving gifts is not meant for the men only; but for both partners. Giving should be a two-way process.
Givers never lack. Better to give than receive.
How To Disorganize The Wheels Of Marriage Problems Strategy #4
Go Together For Functions/Events
To prevent temptations and blaming the innocent devil for your misdeeds, by saying, “it’s the devil’s work”, take your partner along when attending functions, except where it is not convenient for you.
This will help to eradicate suspicions in marriages. Though, there is no guarantee for faithfulness where trust is not available.
Nothing should tamper with TRUST in your marriage. The most important factor in marriage, apart from knowledge, is TRUST. When it is tampered with, the marriage wreck because of marriage problems this may attract.
How To Disorganize The Wheels Of Marriage Problems Strategy #5
Do Not Bring Grown-ups Into The Home When The Marriage Is Still Tender (Not Yet Mature)
Most often, cases of infidelity are seen where there is the presence of a grown-up that is employed as a servant, in the family.
Though this is not the root cause of infidelity.
A little research revealed to me that bringing a full-breasted lady into the family, who is not related to the man, may bring about marital problems; especially, where the servant becomes jealous and gets interested in the man.
If you do not believe me, go and ask Adam how Eve got him and made him eat the forbidden fruit. Or, you can ask Samson how Delilah got him to unveil his secret to her and shattered his destiny.
The same goes for bringing in a full man into the family, who is not related to the woman.
I do not mean to discourage you from accepting visitors but apply caution. Know the boundaries.
How To Disorganize The Wheels Of Marriage Problems Strategy #6
Woman, do your work! Do not send your maiden to attend to your husband
A lot of marriage has been wrecked simply because the lady abandons her home chores for the maiden.
Why do you choose to be asking your maiden to sweep your husband’s bedroom and make the bed, especially when you are not around, and your husband is at home?
Why do you allow your maiden to be massaging your husband and cutting his nails?
Why?
Don’t you think that your husband may flow out emotionally and reach out for her?
Know the limits and keep to the rules.
How To Disorganize The Wheels Of Marriage Problems Strategy #7
Keep Your Eyes Shut After Marriage
Benjamin Franklin said it right, “Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, half shut afterward”.
Marriage is the only war where you sleep with the enemy.
In marriage, each partner is to be an encourager rather than a critic, a forgiver rather than a collector of hurts, an enabler rather than a reformer.
Do not blame or condemn your partner for anything.
Accept and be with him/her for who he/she is.
How To Disorganize The Wheels Of Marriage Problems Strategy #8
Woman! Stop Breastfeeding Your Kids In The Public With Your Breast Exposed
Let us be frank ladies, assuming that you are not yet married, would you consciously open your full breast for people to see at the market place without regretting it?
If you will not, why do you open it to the public in the name of breastfeeding your child after marriage?
Remember, the breast of a woman is not majorly for the children but for the man. In reality, the children are meant to suck them for a while.
Therefore, woman, stop exposing your breasts anyhow, anywhere; most often, it irritates your partner the way you expose his secret property.
How To Disorganize The Wheels Of Marriage Problems Strategy #9
Do Not Be Appearing Dirty After Wedding (Mind Your Dressing)
The way you dress determines the way people address you. Do not be appearing dirty and tattered because you think you are now married and fulfilled.
The way you dress determines the way you would be addressed. Nobody values you more than you value yourself.
And you cannot claim to value yourself when you always appear tattered and dirty, even after wedding.
Who likes a dirty pig?
How To Disorganize The Wheels Of Marriage Problems Strategy #10
Forget About The Past
When you get married, you need to forget the past (Past boyfriends, girlfriends, etc.). If possible, change Sim card and give your new number only to the people you trust not to collapse your marriage.
Continuing in the relationship of the past may make you get emotionally connected to your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend.
Imagine what that will do to your relationship and marriage.
How To Disorganize The Wheels Of Marriage Problems Strategy #11
Mind Your Friends
Do not go about making friends with unrepentant and corrupt minds. They will corrupt you. For evil communication corrupts good manners. (Bible quotes).
How To Disorganize The Wheels Of Marriage Problems Strategy #12
Know When Your Partner Needs “It” (be Sexually Sensitive)
Insensitivity to the issues of sex in relationships (marriage) is one of the destroyers of marriages.
Do not make your partner be begging you for what you ought to willingly give him/her.
Know when your partner needs sexual satisfaction and give it to him/her. It is for you to enjoy.
How To Disorganize The Wheels Of Marriage Problems Strategy #13
Go For Knowledge!
You need adequate insight in marriage to make greater impact in marriage!
Knowledge is the major tool which drives marriage. When knowledge is missing in any marriage marriage problems take over the wheel of the car of the marriage.
It takes knowledge to triumph over marriage problems.
It takes knowledge to lead a home.
It takes knowledge to live together as a husband and a wife.
Without adequate insight in a marriage, a husband become “Hunch back” and a wife turns into a “Knife”.
Knowledge makes the difference between a successful and productive marriage and a failing and “product-thief” marriage!
Make your choice today!
Learn from the masters! I am not one, I just contributed my own quota to the issue of marriage problems!
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